Where has social media gotten us?
July 3, 2008 – 1:26 am
I am a prolific of Facebook, have recently joined twitter and have been blogging on and off for 8 years , have a PS3 and am a casual gamer and the other day something just hit me. Social media and the Internet IS really taking over our life. No longer do we have to actually see anyone in person to get things done. For example, no longer do I have to sit next to my friends to play video games. I am a huge Mortal Kombat II fan and downloaded it for PS3. One of my good friends just bought a PS3 and is just as big of a fan of Mortal Kombat and guess what we can play it online. No longer do we have to sit next to each other and play. Granted we call each other on Skype while we are playing, but that is besides the point, we are virtually next to each other. Where will kids social skills be when they grow up?I remember staying up till 3am playing Mortal Kombat with my friends at their house or mine. No longer do we have to do that. Thank god, because I was getting sick of seeing people face to face, which brings me to the next thing, social media. I love social networks, and social media. I study it for a living these days, but see it replacing normal human interaction way too much lately. A good friend of mine actually had his girlfriend of over a year exit out of their “facebook” relationship before telling him in person. She then blocked him and had all of the mutual friends that she controlled block him. No more tough, awkward phone calls, or even emails. Let the profile tell the story. Is that what society is coming to. It is like putting up the “Will you marry me” billboard, but a little worse. Are we unable to maintain human interaction? I don’t know. People in my age group at least had to see each other to play video games. What will the future hold? Who knows? Complete asynchronous communication is what we are going towards.Excuse me, I have to go change my facebook profile to say “It’s complicated” with this girl I met at the bar a few weeks ago instead of single. All of my friends and their friends and people in my network want to know.





